My tools

My tools

​It is the combination of my tools and approaches that will have the greatest impact on you—whether you are a private client seeking guidance, undergoing supervision in your professional role, or an entrepreneur looking to prevent stress in your organization by starting with yourself.

The composition of these tools and approaches means that ultimately, you will require fewer sessions, which is in both your interest and mine.

During in-person appointments at the clinic, I make use of cognitive tools coaching, intuition, standardized ear acupuncture, and mindfulness training in digestible portions.

Online, you still have access to the whole package, except for acupuncture, of course.


Below, you can read more about my primary tools.

COACHING

​Coaching is a powerful tool for self-discovery and growth, offering guidance and support in achieving personal and professional goals. 

Through thoughtful questioning and active listening, coaching empowers individuals to unlock their full potential and make meaningful changes in their lives. ​

​​I combine my knowledge with my experience from over 6000 sessions and my own intuitive approach.

Coaching is an integral element in all treatments, whether it's supervision, business coaching, therapy, personal development, or stress prevention.

cognitive AND metacognitive therapy

We have 60,000 thoughts every day, and most of them are likely to be the same as the ones you had yesterday. 

Many of these thoughts are negative automatic thoughts that seemingly come out of nowhere, criticizing, warning, reminding you of past situations where you felt inadequate, and so on.

​It's not necessarily our negative thoughts that pose the challenge; it's the amount of time and attention we dedicate to them.

This phenomenon is not new.

"It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters" 

- The slave Epictetus

​The goal is to not react automatically to negative thoughts. By minimizing attention to these thoughts, they will naturally take up less space and have less influence, leading to symptom relief and an increased sense of control.

​You learn what to do when you experience a flood of thoughts or physical symptoms of discomfort.

Tools and knowledge provide you with new ways to act. 

Ultimately, this results in fewer worries and less mental clutter, giving you access to a better quality of life.

"If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself,  but to your estimate of it" - Emperor Marcus Aurelius

​Mindfulness – a tool to get more out of your life​

Mindfulness is essentially about being present in the here and now, without judging or evaluating your experiences.

It may sound simple, but it's one of the most challenging things you can be asked to do. Researchers at Harvard found that 47% of our lives, we are mentally somewhere else than where we physically are.

It's quite unfortunate to have spent 14 days in Barbados and only been fully present for half of that time...

The purpose of mindfulness is essentially to savor life more fully. Besides getting more out of the things you already do, mindfulness can enable you to handle unpleasant situations and change your relationship with your thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations.

Mindfulness originates from the Buddhist religion, where it has been practiced for over 2,500 years.

It was purified from its religious aspects and introduced to the Stress Reduction Clinic at the University of Massachusetts Medical Center in the 1970s by Jon Kabat-Zinn. 

Saki Santorelli, a professor of medicine, joined Jon and later took over as the head of the Center for Mindfulness in Medicine, Health Care, and Society, initiating the Mindfulness movement.

​Since then, Mindfulness has been researched repeatedly. It is evidence-based and widely used across the globe. 

For instance, if you go to a doctor with depression in England or Holland, the doctor may ask whether you prefer medication or Mindfulness as a treatment option.

Mindfulness can be used to address various issues, including:

  • Stress - both positive and negative stress
  • Sleep problems
  • Memory issues
  • Acceptance of challenging life circumstances
  • Low self-esteem
  • Social anxiety
  • Racing or intrusive thoughts
  • Pain management

Mindfulness is a tool to move your focus from your thoughts to something you can see, hear, count, sense ect. 

This calms your nervous system and gives you a time-out in your head.​

Mindfulness practice can lead to increased emotional well-being, reduced stress, and improved focus and concentration. 

It also fosters greater self-awareness, resilience, and the ability to respond to challenging situations with greater clarity and composure.​

Jon Kabat-Zinn and Mette B. Lorenzen,

7-days 'MBSR in Mind-Body Medicine' 2014​​

I have had the pleasure of attending more than 100 hours of teaching/training with Jon Kabat-Zinn and Saki Santorelli in 2014 when they were in Denmark and with Saki again 5 days in a row in 2018, 2022 and 2023. 

I have since 2022 received weekly training from Saki Santorelli by Zoom from the US and practice Mindfulness as a way of living every day.

Mindfulness helps you to:

  • Increase presence and awareness in daily life.
  • Enhance judgment and decision-making.
  • Cultivate self-awareness and self-compassion.
  • Cope with difficult emotions, thoughts, anxiety, depression, and insecurity.
  • Foster self-care, healing, and personal development.
  • Gain better control over your thoughts, reactions, and actions.
  • Prevent and address stress-related disorders, both physical and mental.
  • Create clarity and organization in your life.
  • Embrace reality as it is.
  • Develop inner peace, joy, and resilience.

Mindfulness is always incorporated in my practice. I also offer short introductory sessions for businesses and the standardized 8-week programs. Feel free to reach out to me for more information.

NADA acupuncture helps you reach your goals faster

​NADA acupuncture is ear acupuncture designed for treatment with a focus on engaging in personal development and processing. 

Research shows that NADA acupuncture prepares an individual for therapy.

NADA is an abbreviation for the National Acupuncture Detoxification Association. The model was developed in the 1970s at Lincoln Hospital in New York.

NADA acupuncture quiets down the threat system without the need for talking.

Regulation occurs, among other things, through the autonomic nervous system, the body's hormones, and neurotransmitters.

That's why it is used today in all disaster-stricken areas around the world, in many hospitals, treatment facilities, prisons, and in therapy. Body and mind are interconnected. With me, we cover all aspects. 

​​Let's talk about how i can help you

It is the combination of my tools that makes the process with me so effective. With my help, you can regain the connection between your body, mind and spirit. Curious? Read more here:❤️

I can assist you with the following:

Contact me using the form for a talk on how I can assist your company or you personally - either online, at my clinic, or at your workplace.

✓ Member of the Danish Psychotherapist association

✓ More than 6.000 individual sessions  

✓ 24+ years experience in professional communication

NEOMENIA

by Mette B.​ Lorenzen

​Cognitive Psychotherapist MPF

Denmark

Contact information​:

mette@neomenia.dk

Mobile: +45 71 75 81 26​

CVR: 35916202​